Some Secrets for Getting Back And Ex

Hey I know what you're going through, I've been there.
    
The break up was painful, and the time apart is excruciating. You think about that person night and day, usually while either sobbing or stomping around angry. Friends have tried to set you up with someone new, but none of them can hold a candle to your ex and you know they are the only one for you. You have made the decision that you will get back with your ex, no matter what it takes, and give the relationship one last shot. But you need some help to get back with your ex and some moral support from your friends.
    
Keep in mind the fact that while you were going through the break up and its aftermath, you may have said some things that you wish you could take back. Your friends either quietly agreed with  you or added fuel to the fire, but either way, ugly words have more than been said. Before you start pursuing your ex, clear the air with your friends and tell them what you intend to do. Explain that you were angry and that you appreciated their support during that terrible time of your life, but that person is truly the one you love and that their continued support is needed. Being your friends, they will agree whole heartedly and do whatever it takes to help you get back with your ex. Yeah, right! They will have a fit and ask if you have lost your mind completely! After the initial shock, they will come around though.
    
Next, consider the realistic side of things. Do you want to get back with your ex because you still love and miss that person, or is it simply because you do not want to be alone? Are you running back to him because you are scared of the unknown? Did one or two bad dates sour you from the opposite sex in general? Be honest with yourself and do not allow your loneliness or fear gloss over the reasons for the break up. Their bad behaviors did not magically clear up when you broke up, so consider everything before moving ahead. If you broke up in the heat of an argument, that is one thing, but if you simply could not tolerate a nasty habit or if that person was abusive in any way, then you should simply count your blessing that you're out of the relationship.
    
Do you know if your ex is still single? If the break up was because of infidelity, trying to get them back from the one they left you for is sad, pathetic and fodder for countless country songs. The old saying “you lose a man the same way you got him”  (you can also substitute woman here) is repeated so often because it is painfully true. If you started a relationship with a someone who is supposed to be committed, do you honestly think he will not eventually cheat on you too? If they are not single, then sit yourself down and ask: am I looking for love or revenge?
    
If he is still unattached, and you still want to pursue him, realize that nothing has inherently changed. He is still the same man or woman (once a cheater always a cheater) and so are you. The problems with the relationship did not vanish. If you are not willing to talk about your issues, then you are not ready to try to work things out. Clear the air, list your grievances and see if compromises can be reached. If the answer is yes, then go slowly, carefully. Pretend he is someone new and relearn what made you love him in the first place. This time you will be more aware of the things that you know you do not love. Be sure you let him know what these things are before they escalate. Try not to get caught up in the rush of familiarity, and as always, try to think with your head rather than your heart.

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Welcome

Hey all,

Welcome to the first blog post.

Bring 'Em Back To You will be about getting your ex back.  Regardless of who we are, we all have that person from our past or present who meant so much to us we feel that they were the "one."

But for some reason the relationship ended, sometimes it was our fault, sometimes not.

Regardless however we want that person back.

Here we will give advice on how to get them back into your arms.